You have to know how hot you like it, for starters. Jump ship? Fan the flames? Re-invest? Redefine? The answer to this question depends on two things: what you did when desire was strong, in addition to playing with that desire what...
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it's less an actual bucket, and more a state of mind. I didn’t have sex from long time because I’m always Friend-Zoned! I have a lot of female friends, but all of them consider me as their best, nice, kind brother! I...
View MoreIf this is your first conversation that the two of you will be having about things that might be accompanied by feelings of insecurity and jealousy, then you probably won’t be able to do it without some amount of hurt. These conversations, and the feelings...
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My turn to kiss your feet, right? Depends on a few factors, namely, what kind of relationship are you in and how important is the power exchange aspect to you. (Also: how did you get to the point where you’re calling him...
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How much do you think a person should “prepare†for anal play, in terms of hygiene, trimming, cleaning, etc? Like, how can you have your asshole licked without being anxious about it? I would like to rephrase those two questions, and I will address both. What’s...
View MoreNo. ***** Sometimes you can helpfully provide a list of resources, and sometimes you get tired of it. Help me support the cause of Better Sex Ed for People of All Ages, including Those Old Enough to Know Better, and become a patron of mine over on...
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First of all, I’m going to assume that you are jokingly using that nickname, because if you were really a prude you never would have come here or you’d leave at soonest opportunity. You can get into this party town and still...
View MoreThe erotic imagination lives in the brain, and you know what they say about the brain… It’s a muscle. Stretch it. Exercise it. Keep it flexible. It’s a channel for electricity. Throw out lots of synaptic points and see what connects. It’s hungry. Give it lots of food...
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What's on _your_ checklist? It’s one of the simplest questions in the Sidewalk Smut interview: how do you want me to refer to your genitals? If they’ve made it clear their gender, I’ll offer them a simple choice: dick or cock, pussy...
View Morewe're on "don't ask don't tell" for our sorta open relationship. I want to be more open about my feelings toward others, but he doesn't, even after suggesting it. I don't mind necessarily, but it's starting to feel a bit secretive. This is not a question,...
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