I’ve had trans partners who want to call their genitals different names to penis/vulva. Do you have any sexy suggestions? If there is one thing I’ve learned from eight years of Smut Slam, eight years of phone sex work, eight years of Sidewalk Smut, and a...
View MoreOne interesting potential side effect of exploring polyamory is that it can bring people way down deeper into the question of “what does this relationship mean?†It doesn’t always—some people just don’t want to go that deep—but for people who are trying to pay attention...
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That sounds both alarming and frustrating to be in your shoes, watching your friend behave in a way that seems counterproductive, if not actually risky. Whether this is happening in a nightclub or a sex club—I can’t tell, and it doesn’t really matter—women and people...
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Short answer: “Cheering him up†needs to be lower on your list of things to do. As with many Fuckbucket items, there is no context here, so I’m going to hazard a few educated and/or statistically probable guesses: This is a straight couple (individual orientations unknown),...
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The best way, goodness. You’re asking someone who has never had sex in an airplane. The closest I’ve come was sex in a train compartment, once in a private compartment, and one time shared, both times awkward in their own ways. Additionally, the Fuckbucketeer asks about...
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When people ask this sort of “how do I know if…†question, it usually means one of two things: you want the thing to be true, e.g. you want to have a fetish, or you don’t want the thing to be true, that is, you...
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Is consensual non-consensual sex (e.g. choking or rape fantasy) anti-feminist? Then, if you enjoy the “consensual rapist†role, does that mean that you have rapist tendencies? Short answer: not necessarily. I firmly believe that no fantasies or consensual play are inherently bad, by whatever moral/ethical standards you’re...
View MoreI consider myself mainly hetero and want to get to know how sex with another man is. How do I meet somebody and should I explain my situation or just pretend I am into men? Online dating was MADE for people like you: you know exactly...
View MoreY'all, I was too tired to put it down in writing, but this question from one of the Smut Slams kinda stuck in my head and made me want to respond. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIuySqKrmd0...
View MoreGood lord, yes. Here are but a few of the things that remain mysteries. I don’t need to “solve†them, per se; I feel fine with leaving them in the realm of “other people like them†or “not important why.†I am also fine with...
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