Is consensual non-consensual sex (e.g. choking or rape fantasy) anti-feminist? Then, if you enjoy the “consensual rapist†role, does that mean that you have rapist tendencies? Short answer: not necessarily. I firmly believe that no fantasies or consensual play are inherently bad, by whatever moral/ethical standards you’re...
View MoreI consider myself mainly hetero and want to get to know how sex with another man is. How do I meet somebody and should I explain my situation or just pretend I am into men? Online dating was MADE for people like you: you know exactly...
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I’ve been making theatre and creating shows for a while now, self-producing a string of performances that I can wear proudly, like a necklace, feeling good about just making the thing. I don’t really know in what order I’ve put the gems, or exactly how...
View MoreY'all, I was too tired to put it down in writing, but this question from one of the Smut Slams kinda stuck in my head and made me want to respond. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIuySqKrmd0...
View MoreGood lord, yes. Here are but a few of the things that remain mysteries. I don’t need to “solve†them, per se; I feel fine with leaving them in the realm of “other people like them†or “not important why.†I am also fine with...
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When I read this blog post, written by a Facebook friend, I commented, “you inspire me to write my own list!†It felt true in the moment— generally I too am a fan of subverting fashion/appearance expectations—but actually writing it was a long way off....
View MoreI won’t say that I have absorbed anything dramatically new to my own pleasure/fantasy/sex/kink palate. (I assume you’re talking about my years in phone work; Sidewalk Smut is very much the same kind of work.) I’m a little more curious about men in feminine clothing,...
View MoreWHEN: 4 hours (8:30pm-12:30am), Feb 9, 2018. WHERE: Pleasure Garden (Russell Square), Fringe World, Perth. OUTPUT: five full-length pieces, including an awkward first-date piece, a bit of (M-on-F) pussy-eating in a garden shed, and some gritty girl-on-girl action in a shower. The first commission I got last night was for a...
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You have to know how hot you like it, for starters. Jump ship? Fan the flames? Re-invest? Redefine? The answer to this question depends on two things: what you did when desire was strong, in addition to playing with that desire what...
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I used to say that getting back into the Smut Stand was easy, but that has never been less true than right now. I’ve been in Perth (Australia) for a week and a half, and I am struggling, my friends, wooo-wheeeee! Submissive?...
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